"You don't need to many friends, just a few real ones who appreciates who you are"
I somehow disagree to this quotation. What if you meet a lot of friends that appreciate and accept who you really are? Does that mean you need to choose among them? No. We just need to be grateful and accept them too.
I have a lot of friends and I'm learning many things about life from them and from our experiences together. There are many types of "Group of Friends".
In my experience I have these type of "Group of Friends":
The 4x4 Group
No Boys Allowed Group
Mixed Group
So what are the advantages and disadvantages of having lots of "Group of Friends"?
1. Exploding Chatbox.
Have you ever been chatting with your friends simultaneously? Well I did (most of the time). We have this Facebook group plus the group chat in messenger. There's this time that I can feel my phone heating because of them.
2. Lots and lots of outing.
This is the thing about friends. Exploring places together!
3. Difficult to ask permission from your parents.
Yes it is fun to have lots of outing but in my case I have strict parents. They will say that you had an outing yesterday and you're asking permission to have a coffee with your other friends tomorrow. Well I guess that's that thing about parents they're just protective.
4. You'll meet different types of people.
Having many friends help you to be more approachable because you know how to get along with them. You'll meet different people and encounter different attitudes from them.
5. You'll repeat your story not just once.
When you and your boyfriend/girlfriend broke up, your friends will ask why did you broke up and you'll ask for advice from them. The thing is that you need to tell the story over and over again.
6. Having to decide which party you're going to.
I hate this kind of situation. It sucks that you need to choose which friend's party you're going to. I mean If I have two bodies, I'll go to both parties but that is impossible!
7. Spending your own money.
Sad truth.
8. You will learn more.
Who said that only teachers can teach? Friends are also good teachers! Not in Math but in life.
9. Help is easy.
Friends will give you a helping hand if you're distress.
This is my favorite quotation about friends because i can really relate to it. We must be truly grateful to God because He gave us our true friends.
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